In Loving Memory
Of
Raymond Henry “Budge” Milnes

Service
THURSDAY 27TH MARCH 2025. COMMENCING AT 10:30 A.M.

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Raymond Henry “Budge” Milnes
Passed peacefully on Thursday
20th March 2025, aged 77 years.
Dearly loved husband of Gwen.
Loved father of Scott, Adam and their partners.
Cherished Poppy of Xavier, Isaac, Charlotte, Brittany,
Brodie, Cassy and Daniel, Kay-Lee and Kirstyn.
Gone Golfing!

Family and Friends are warmly
invited to celebrate the life of
Raymond “Budge” Milnes at

David W Bull Pakenham Funeral Home,
190 Princes Highway, Pakenham
on Thursday 27th March 2025
commencing at 10:30 a.m.
After light refreshments a burial
will follow at the Pakenham Cemetery
Thewlis Road Pakenham

Should you wish to send your personal condolences
to the family, please leave a message on the
“Leave a condolence” link located on this page.

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  1. Sincere sympathy to Gwen Scott Adam and families on the sad passing of Ray. He was a great friend for many years. We will miss his happy smiling face and treasure his memory
    Love Carol & Porter family xxx ❤️

    Carol Anne Porter
  2. Words cannot express how sad we feel with the passing of our much loved life time friend Ray. So many happy times and wonderful holidays spent together. We will miss you.
    Thinking of you Gwen, Scott, Adam and your families with all our love,
    Barb, Barry,Brad,Troy,Lee, Ruby and Eddie. Xx

    Barb and Barry Morrison
  3. What an absolute gentleman great friend a smile that lit up the room. You are certainly going to missed in Blackall my mate. The cupcakes just won’t be the same without your icing skills. Our deepest condolences to you Gwen he idolised you and your boys . God bless him❤️❤️❤️

    Janelle and Foot
  4. Deepest Condolences to Scott and the Milnes family…Rest in peace Ray “Budge”

    Stephen,Tracy,Tarun, Sienna and Kynan

    Stephen Cook
  5. Our Deepest Sympathy to Gwen, Scott, Adam and all the family. Another Great man lost, many fond memories! Lots of love, The Rose Family. xo

    David Rose
  6. To our brother, brother in law, uncle and great uncle; to Ray. We will miss you, your smiling face, your stories, your hugs and your laugh. Sending all our love, strength and heartfelt sympathies to Gwen, Scott, Adam and families.
    With love from,
    Ron, Ret, Ben, Kate, Tim, Hannah, Grace and families. xxx
    , .

    Kate Wisewould
  7. Heart felt sympathy to you Gwen and family on the passing of Ray, your shining light. He was one of the best.
    Marg Morrow

    Marg Morrow
  8. So sorry to find out that Ray has passed. I remember many happy family get togethers so many years ago when all the cousins met at Officer on Boxing Day to eat all the Christmas leftovers! Cricket was played, and everyone was happy seeing how the next generation was growing up. Ray was a real happy-go-lucky man. a golf fanatic as l recall. Sincere Condolances to Gwenda and all the extended family. Love, Kathy

    Kathy Whelan
  9. Ray you were a delight to be around and I will miss you dearly x Sending you all the love this world has to offer.

    Kerrie & Trevor Hallam
  10. What a pleasure in having knowing you and wife Gwen. We looked forward to your smiling face every year here in Blackall. Your presence will be missed dearly .
    May you fly high with the Angels and may your star shine brightly upon us every night. Rest in peace dear Ray . our condolences to Gwen and families .

    Tony, Diane, Taylor Hauff & families
  11. Hello Gwenny, our deepest condolences to you and your family. We found it hard to believe because he was such a vibrant and fit looking man. We will miss you both coming up to QLD every year. Big hugs from us.

    Cam & Sharon Tindall
  12. Our dear Gwenie, Scotty, Adam and families. Words cannot express how sad we are feeling at the loss of Ray (Darling)
    He truely was one of the best. Our family trip to Barham just won’t be the same without him. Sincere condolences to
    you all.
    Love Sue, Trevor, Ryan, Erin & Trav

    Trev & Sue McQualter
  13. We are saddened to hear of Rays passing.
    Condolences to beautiful Gwen, Scott, Adam and families.
    A true gentleman and lovely man.
    Our hearts go out to you all at this sad time.
    Thinking of you
    Ray( Spud) & Janette. X X

    Ray murphy
  14. Dear Gwen and family. We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Ray. May your happy and loving memories bring you peace, comfort and strength.
    Max & Diane Shaw

    Max & Diane Shaw
  15. Ray, a wonderful character of a man and friend to so many, near and far! You touched the lives of many with your infectious smile and positive attitude for life! Gwen, we send you all our love and hugs to you. Our condolences to yourself and family ❤️

    Brandon & Amanda (Blackall)
  16. Gwenny, Scott, Adam and Ron and Ret. Our love and thoughts to all on the passing of Ray.
    He will be greatly missed by so many.
    Bill and Di Savage

    Bill & Di Savage
  17. Dear Gwen Scott and families, sorry to hear the sad news of Ray passing thinking of you all, we have so many great memories with Ray at Pakenham golf club Diane and Graeme Boyd ❤️

    Diane and Graeme Boyd
  18. We are so sad to lose our great friend Ray, and extend our deepest sympathy to Gwen, their family and friends. We were blessed to spend time in Blackall with them each year and to share so many laughs and good times. Our love to you Gwen.

    Mick & Ros Hosa
  19. So sorry to hear this sad news Gwenie. Sending you and your family all our love, hugs and thoughts. Will always remember our laughs, cuppas and biscuits in your kitchen xx ❤️

    Leanne Davis
  20. Dear Gwen & Family
    So sorry for your loss and we are thinking of you at this sad time. Cherish your beautiful memories and take care. Xxxx

    Cally & Shelley King
  21. What do you say when you lose a man who was more than a friend? Our hearts are shattered. We never imagined we would be made to feel part of the family when we first met Ray and Gwen “on the road” in Blackall 11 years ago. Ray’s little-boy laugh and his deep love for Gwen captured our hearts. David and I will certainly miss you Ray. All our love and deepest sympathies to Gwen, Adam, Scott, George and Joy and all the families.

    Toni and David
  22. Dear U. Min.
    So sorry that you have lost the love of your life. U. Ray was a one of a kind. He was always laughing, smiling ,joking and saw the relaxed side of life. Although I hadnt seen him for a while I always loved our connection and I’m truly sad. We always just picked up from when we saw each other last and that is an easy and true relationship.
    Love to you and Scottie and Adam and extended family.
    See you on the tee
    Kirst and Gaz and the boys. Xxxxx

    Kirsty and Gary Hall
  23. We only met Ray last year in Blackall, but felt his friendship and warmth immediately. He was very welcoming and a real genuine person. I’m sad for his family and feel another has gone too early.
    RIP Ray and thanks for the short friendship.
    Greg Nicholls

    Greg and Kay Nicholls
  24. Sincere Condolences to Gwen and Family . Ray was a top fellow and will be sorely missed by not only Family but his Friends as well . Not only was he a golfer but pretty good on old time dance floor as well . R.I.P . Ray ( mate and friend ) .

    Richard and Dorothy Thiedeke, Blackall.
  25. Gwen and family
    Terribly sorry to hear of your loss. Ray was a gentleman and easy to get along with.
    Ray will be missed.

    Maureen and Shane Kelly
  26. What can we say Ray was a much loved brother in law,uncle, friend, and we have so many fantastic memories of you we will never forget. All our love to Gwen Scott Adam & family

    Geoff &Val Wheeler
  27. Shocked to hear of Ray passing great man test drove me for my job with Safeway, always enjoyed a laugh and mixed well with all the staff
    my condolences to Gwen and all the family he will be sadly missed by all RIP Ray ( Budgie)

    Bob Geeves
  28. Words seem inadequate to express the sadness we feel at hearing the news of Ray. Our hearts go out to you and your families Gwen.

    Karen & Scott Choyce
  29. Roel and I are so sad to hear of Ray’s passing. He is remembered as a friendly people person and a man admired for his golfing ability. We enjoyed his company very much during his time as a member of Pakenham East Probus Club. Rest in peace, Ray. Condolences and sincere sympathy go out to you dear Gwen and all the family.

    Marlene and Roel Knaap
  30. A wonderful Brother in Law,Uncle and best friend to us all. We will miss that cheeky smile. So many great memories. Barham will never be the same. All our love to Gwen Scott Adam and their families. Faye and family

    Faye James
  31. Dearest Gwenny,Scott,Adam,Ron,Ret & Families
    Words can not express how sorry we are to hear of Ray’s passing, our heartfelt sympathy
    We will miss his cheeky smile and thoughtful gestures.
    Cherish all your wonderful memories.
    “Grief is the price we pay for love”

    Paul,Gill,Rachel, Laura,Belinda, Brad WHEELER & families
  32. condolences to Gwen Scott shannon and extended family .so sad to hear the passing of Ray (budgie) had the privilege of working with one of the greats always happy easy going and infectious laugh .rip mate

    Trevor King
  33. So sorry to hear of Ray’s sudden passing. Sincere Condolances to Gwenda and all the family. Happy memories from many years ago when all the families used to get together at Officer on Boxing Day to share Christmas Day leftovers, and for all the young cousins to play cricket. As the younger generation married and had children the gatherings got larger for a time, but then diminished as the Christmas period then had to be shared with various in-laws. Ray was always so happy-go-lucky. Sad to hear of his sudden passing.
    Love, Kathy

    Kathy Whelan
  34. Dear Gwen and Family so sorry for your loss. Will miss seeing Ray every year he was always smiling and happy. Thinking of you all

    Tracy Brown
  35. Dear Gwen and family, very sad to hear of Ray’s passing. Our thoughts are with you at this sad time.

    Love from the girls at the Warragul Country Club.

    Staff at Warragul Country Club